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Can my spouse take my 100% p&t?

Hello all,I was wondering if I get married and then my spouse decided to divorce me after about  10yrs or any amount of time could she take a portion of my 100% p&t and SSDI?

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"This is a girl I met online from the Philippines" See a lawyer. Get a prenuptial agreement drafted and signed if you see marriage in your future. Internet dating sites are full of scam artists. VA...

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nickfuhs wrote:"This is a girl I met online from the Philippines" See a lawyer. Get a prenuptial agreement drafted and signed if you see marriage in your future. Internet dating sites are full of scam...

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Agree with Tawheed. I had a friend that went through this with a Thai girl 1/2 his age that he married. She kept asking for money until he had none left. Now he has married a Filipino girl again 1/2...

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I spent 5 years in a Special Operations unit on Okinawa. We had a bar in our unit with a 28 ft airdrop shute on the ceiling. From that parachute we had a collection of items. Many were "bar tags". You...

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This gal is a GOLDDIGGER. Loose her FAST. Bet she's been married 3-4-5 times.

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thx2vets, Did I hear you say "test-drive" for a couple months over there (?). Better think this one out long and hard..........relax for a time and think about this.

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Divorce judge can and will allow your disability and Social Security to be divided as part of a divorce decree for alimony and child support. To rub salt in that wound, every time you get a benefit...

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Under the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act, VA disability payments are exempt from being treated as marital property and cannot be divided as part of a divorce. Under certain...

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Alas, this sounds like the beginning to a story I've seen/heard many many times over.  Asian Girl/Mail-order-Bride's 8-Step Guide to Happiness: Step 1 - Find a GI (or American) desperate enough to...

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Re: Can my spouse take my 100% p&t?

Don't don't don't don't ever get married- you think your lonely now wait til she takes your house money kids dignity, sucker your being played!

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Whomever is saying that your disability (SSDI/DISABILITY) is garnishable "by spouse" is bogus. Your compensation is YOUR compensation, NOT your spouses. While its true that once you get married if you...

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Me lub you long time G.I.... buy me air conditioned Honda.

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Re: Can my spouse take my 100% p&t?

2DZY4u wrote:Whomever is saying that your disability (SSDI/DISABILITY) is garnishable "by spouse" is bogus. Your compensation is YOUR compensation, NOT your spouses. While its true that once you get...

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Thank you everyone. Everyone here gave me a lot to think about. One of my symptoms of my mental illness is being compulsive. I almost booked a flight to Manila last week to see her. I have to realize...

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You owe her nothing!  Break it off and do not look back.  She is putting a guilt trip on you in an attempt to get a husband with a US passport and income.

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As Brovet said, she is putting a guilt-trip on you. It is all happening too fast..........................change "Skype" account and close the old one. Listen to the record...

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+1

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Re: Can my spouse take my 100% p&t?

Yes very true. I don't owe her anything. I need to set boundaries for myself and not let people take advantage of me. Thank you once again to the everyone for the advice and support.

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This is an area where statute law and court practice diverge. Some courts in some districts do include VA compensation, the exclusion by statute is not respected. You are then in a difficult situation...

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